I had an insightful thought at the weekend....
"If good sex really has nothing to do with garter belts and stockings or being somewhere other than the usual bed, then why am I getting angry that I'm not getting those shallow external things?" Why not just concentrate on what I know helps with good sex:
intimacy
communication
being "in-tune"
honesty
taking time to honour and bless her
But I carried my anger through our talking and foreplay.
Only a day or two later did this thought resurface. Actually it was just before I started typing this entry. (Hello anyone who found me via Attitudes of Sexual Integrity or God & Cigarettes). Here's something especially for you, paraphrasing C. Russ Chaw himself
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