Friday, December 19, 2008

temptation



I'm gonna make a confession here. I'd be better to tell a Godly bloke, but I'll write about it here for now.

I love my wife, she's beautiful & alluring. I don't know anything about your partner, but mine is the best!

Still, I've been noticing a girl at work. She's got the sweetest smiile and friendliest demeanour about her. I think being honest about this is a healthier process than just ignoring it or pretending it's not true.

What is it about her that captures my imagination? There's a fantasy here that reminds me of the fantasy of eros that started when I was in puberty.

Someone who's bubbly and positive. Someone whose enthusiasm and optimism can carry and lift me! Oh, I'd like to loose myself in her.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

See your true condition


... our ability to see correctly is another key to being freed from deception. Often when we are offended we see ourselves as victims and blame those who have hurt us. We justify our bitterness, unforgiveness, anger, envy and resentment as they surface.

.."Anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see" (Rev 3:18). See what? Your true condition!

Monday, December 08, 2008

3 Reasons for Sex

and women's comments about their husbands and sex:

My husband wants to look at my body, but what I really want him to see is me. Behind these big breasts is a heart yearning for a spiritual connection.”

“I don’t care about intercourse. I care about intimacy. If I had to choose between a roll in the sheets or a stroll in the park, I’d pick the park every time.”

“I don’t want an all-night sexual marathon, just one hour of his attention and affection.”